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Managing Your Preschooler’s Sweet Tooth

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November 17, 2021 Children

Nicki’s four-year-old son seemed to have radar for sweets. “Every time we go to the grocery store, doctor’s office, or a party, he is drawn to these foods,” she said. “Now, he asks several times a day for something sweet to eat.” Sweets, and how to manage them, is becoming a top concern for parents of young children. The old advice of avoiding them is hard to follow in today’s world where you can find sweets to eat nearly everywhere you go. Lollipops at the doctor’s office, donuts at church, and cookies in day care are just some examples of where kids find sweets. In the first five years of life, food preferences are forming. Helping your child become familiar with different foods is critical to help them like them. So, if your child sees lots of vegetables and whole grains at an early age, chances are they will like these foods because they see them often and have developed a taste for them. Likewise, this is true for unhealthy foods. If your child is exposed to a lot of sweets, such as candy, cookies and soda, they’ll probably learn to like them — perhaps even more than healthier foods.

You’ll want to have a game plan for managing sweets, so they don’t become an unhealthy addition to your preschooler’s diet. Here are a few tips:

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  • How many? Determine how many sweets, on average, you want your preschooler to have. For some families this means one per day, for others three a week. You should have an idea of the limit, so you are able to keep them in check.
  • What’s the right size? Keep sweet treats tiny in size. After all, young children are small themselves, so make the treat size match. Tiny cookies, mini ice cream sandwiches, or small treats delivered in a quarter-cup size container keep the portion size reasonable.
  • Draw the line on sweets. Young children can be persistent but they can also be distracted. Change the subject when your preschooler asks for sweets, and instead ask your child if they want to take a walk, or go outside and play.
  • Watch the sweet supply at home. If your cupboards are full of cookies and snack cakes it will be hard to keep them from your child. Limit the sweets you buy each week, and when you have them in your home, keep them out of sight and out of reach.
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  • Yes, you can. Which one? Give your child a choice between two options: for example, a cookie or a homemade frozen juice pop. Offering your child a choice will give them some control over the situation.
  • Use a reminder. When your child eats a treat, remind them that there are no more treats for today. Let them know they may have a treat another day.
  • Not on the menu today. If your child asks and you have decided that a break from treats is a good idea, simply say, “Treats aren’t on the menu today.”
  • Go for nutrition. When selecting sweets to offer your child, go for those that have an added nutritional benefit. For example, ice cream, although high in sugar and fat, also offers nutrients like calcium. Candy only offers sugar.
  • Keep it to the kitchen. Sitting at the table to eat is a good habit to start with young children, so let your preschooler enjoy their treat at the table.
  • Stick to your plan. Once you’ve developed a game plan for managing your preschooler’s sweet tooth, stick to it as best you can. Being consistent is important when managing sweets.
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    Side-Lying Hold

    1. For the right breast, lie on your right side with your baby facing you.
    2. Pull your baby close. Your baby’s mouth should be level with your nipple.
    3. In this position, you can cradle your baby’s back with your left arm and support yourself with your right arm and/or pillows.
    4. Keep loose clothing and bedding away from your baby.
    5. Reverse for the left breast.

    This hold is useful when:

    • You had a C-section
    • You want to rest while baby feeds
    • You are breastfeeding in the middle of the night
    • You and your baby are comfortable in this position
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    Cross-Cradle Hold

    1. For the right breast, use your left arm to hold your baby’s head at your right breast and baby’s body toward your left side. A pillow across your lap can help support your left arm.
    2. Gently place your left hand behind your baby’s ears and neck, with your thumb and index finger behind each ear and your palm between baby’s shoulder blades. Turn your baby’s body toward yours so your tummies are touching.
    3. Hold your breast as if you are squeezing a sandwich. To protect your back, avoid leaning down to your baby. Instead, bring your baby to you.
    4. As your baby’s mouth opens, push gently with your left palm on baby’s head to help them latch on. Make sure you keep your fingers out of the way.
    5. Reverse for the left breast.

    This hold is useful when:

    • Your baby is premature
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    • Your baby needs help to stay latched
    • Your baby needs extra head support
    • You and your baby are comfortable in this position
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    Clutch or “Football” Hold

    1. For the right breast, hold your baby level, facing up, at your right side.
    2. Put your baby’s head near your right nipple and support their back and legs under your right arm.
    3. Hold the base of your baby’s head with your right palm. A pillow underneath your right arm can help support your baby’s weight.
    4. To protect your back, avoid leaning down to your baby. Bring baby to you instead.
    5. Reverse for the left breast.

    This hold is useful when:

    • You had a C-section
    • You have large breasts
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    • You have a strong milk let-down
    • You are breastfeeding twins
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    • Your baby has reflux
    • You and your baby are comfortable in this position
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    Cradle Hold

    1. For the right breast, cradle your baby with your right arm. Your baby will be on their left side across your lap, facing you at nipple level.
    2. Your baby’s head will rest on your right forearm with your baby’s back along your inner arm and palm.
    3. Turn your baby’s tummy toward your tummy. Your left hand is free to support your breast, if needed. Pillows can help support your arm and elbow.
    4. To protect your back, avoid leaning down to your baby. Instead, bring your baby to you.
    5. Reverse for the left breast.

    This hold is useful when:

    • Your baby needs help latching on
    • You and your baby are comfortable in this position
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    Laid-Back Hold

    1. Lean back on a pillow with your baby’s tummy touching yours and their head at breast level. Some moms find that sitting up nearly straight works well. Others prefer to lean back and lie almost flat.
    2. You can place your baby’s cheek near your breast, or you may want to use one hand to hold your breast near your baby. It’s up to you and what you think feels best.
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    This hold is useful when:

    • Your baby is placed on your chest right after birth
    • You have a strong milk let-down
    • You have large breasts
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